It’s just that time of the year again for you: a time for self-degradation and comparisons. John just lost 10 pounds and you’re still fat. Your little sister just landed a new job while you’re still trying to find a hiring manager that will answer their phone. Your neighbor just bought a car for their son while you have to use UBER to go to Walmart.  Friend from school graduated with honors and threw a party while you barely passed physics. Here's how to feel and what to do when people are doing better than you